Thursday, October 20, 2011

Random: Whats That Mean?

This is just a random thought from tonight so just roll with me on this one....

Love... What does it mean? Like serious question. The term is very indefinable. it varies from person to person. It will change from relationship to relationship. "I Love You". This phrase built of 2 words and a letter can invoke many different actions. it can pull to people together. It can also push to people away. It can make you feel comfortable or make you feel a form of fear or guilt. It can be endearing, but when said by the wrong person, it can almost be insulting.

Websters defines Love as "a strong affection for another arising out of kinship or personal ties <maternal love for a child> (2): attraction based on sexual desire : affection and tenderness felt by lovers (3): affection based on admiration, benevolence, or common interests <love for his old schoolmates> ". Ok... but really that's all well and good sounding on paper. But no where in Webster's does it say that Love is keying the side of his car or showing up at his job threatening his coworkers.

Men love different than women. Just as women love different from men. Big differences tho. Men will say I love you. And we really mean it, because we aren't going to say that to just any and every female. But most women will say I love you.... and in the same sentence say "Ohh! I LOVE these shoes!"  Some women will love the shoes more than the man! Women KEEP shoes, but want to CHANGE a man.da fuck is that? But i digress...  All this is just to say Love has no absolute definition. At least i don't think. But i know what it means to me. What does it mean to you?

~da 6'5